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When Talking About Money Feels Hard—Start with Love | Monday Push


Hebrews 12:11 Newsletter

Hello Reader,

Hatred stirs up strife, But love covers and overwhelms all transgressions [forgiving and overlooking another’s faults]. Proverbs 10:12 AMPT

Hate is a strong word. I rarely use it because it carries so much weight. Webster defines hate as intense hostility and aversion usually deriving from fear, anger, or a sense of injury. That means hate has a root. Even the phrase “I hate when he or she does that” points to something deeper beneath the surface.

The verse tells us that hatred stirs up strife—in other words, it creates conflict. When we let those intense emotions control us, we break unity and block healthy communication. But love does the opposite. Scripture says love overwhelms transgressions.

When I think of being overwhelmed, it’s usually during stressful times. But what if we allowed love to be the overwhelming force in our financial conversations?

Talking about money can be hard. The decisions, regrets, and stress can stir up tension in the relationships that mean the most. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. As Proverbs reminds us, love can shift the tone and bring peace.

If you’re unsure how to start, remember what 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 says:

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.
It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.
It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

1 Corinthians 13:4–7 (NLT)

Reflection Question:
What situation do I need to cover with love?

Prayer of the Week:
Dear God, Thank You for loving me even when I fall short. Help me to reflect that same love in my words and actions, especially in conversations about money. Teach me to respond with patience, kindness, and understanding. In Jesus’ name, Amen

Ready to take the next step? Book your free consultation or purchase one of my budget templates to get started!

Have a good week,

-Latrisa

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Pugh Financial Coaching

I help Christians reduce their financial stress by improving their relationship with money. It is at that point they are able to make better decisions daily so they can live the best version of their life.

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